Richard Patrick Graves Jr. , 70, of Fredericksburg, VA passed away on February 12, 2023.

Richard was born on March 7, 1952, to Richard C. Graves & Dorothy Holman, in Washington, D.C.

After graduation, Richard began his career with the Department of Defense as a Software Analyst for 19 years. In 1992, Richard met Teresa, his wife of 31 years. The two went on to have three children (Rashon, Jawan, & Aikeem) adding on to 4 other children from his previous marriage his list of children include, Patrick Graves, Derrick Graves, Shamar Graves, Rashon Graves, Jawan Graves, Aikeem Graves, and Cassandra Howard.

Richard was a force of nature, determined to provide for his family. His family meant more to him than anything else in the world, something he often mentioned. Richard was proud of all of his children and always made it his priority to be there for his family.

Richard was also a passionate coach of basketball and football and could often be found at a gym or a field when he wasn't at home. He was a Coach for Special Olympics for several years and received a Heroes Award from the Governor. Following his departure from the Special Olympics he opened up BYSA (Bison Youth Sports Association) a basketball  organization that his sons and many talented individuals from the Fredericksburg area participated in, taking some children who had never been out of their hometown before, to nationals multiple years for AAU championships.

Anyone who knew Richard knew that he was the most loving father and husband a family could ask for.

Richard was predeceased by his brothers, John Watson, and Benjamin Pone.

Richard is survived by his wife, Teresa, seven children, nine grandchildren, and one great grandchild. He also has eight stepchildren and several step grandchildren.

A viewing will be held at A.L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home on Tuesday, February 21, 2023 from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM and one hour before the funeral service. A funeral service will be held at A.L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home on Wednesday, February 22, 2023, at 11:00 AM. The interment will follow at Glen Haven Memorial Gardens.